Men Vs Women

Men are a rational species. We are socialize to think rather than to get emotional. Unlike women who tend to be raised on Barbie & dollhouse. We are raised on sports like soccer, badminton & basketball. As a result men tend to see things as black & white, win or lose, like a ball game! While women tend to be better at working in teams & cooperation.

Men tend to see things as a definitive! There is an absolute perspective of an issue. Men tend to be more firm on their answers, believes & positions. Men tend to seek for solutions rather than talking about the problem. A lot of men find talking aimlessly about a problem is in reality POINTLESS. Men enjoy using a mathematical approach when conversing e.g 1+1must be =2. We like to make a POINT, rather than talking about the scenario over & over again.
Communicating…..

In essence man are a much simpler mammals than women are. We tend to be somewhat straightforward in our approach to communication. Women are so complex in their approach.

For illustration purposes:

Man: Honey. I have to go out, do you need anything?
Woman: AGAIN?!

Man: Why? Do you mind if I go out?
Woman: No!

Man: OK! Bye….
Woman: It’s just that you’ve been going out quite often.

Man: OK? Than I’ll stay at home to accompany you. (Smiles)
Woman: No! No! I want you to go out & enjoy yourself. (This is the classic trap, the woman is actually saying something she doesn’t mean here)

Man: OK than I’ll be going…….
Woman: FINE! (Angry)

Man: Are you angry with me?
Woman: NO! GO!

Man: If you want I can stay!
Woman: NO! GO! GO HAVE FUN WITH YOUR FRIENDS!

Unlike women, men do not talk in riddles! In this instance the woman should have been direct in her approach. If she wanted the guy to stay all she had to do was to SAY IT! If she wanted the guy to go all she had to do was to SAY IT!

There is an absolute answer that in my humble opinion could have saved a lot of unnecessary conflicts in this scenario. So a piece of advice to the all ladies listening, throw caution to the wind & get to the POINT when conversing with the opposite sex. It would be much easier to understand our conversation style than it is for us to understand yours.

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